How do u tell ur boyfriend that U have genital warts?

Question:

My boyfriend that I have been with for more than 5 yrs. broke up b/c he didn't appreciate me and treated me really bad..We broke up for more than 6 mths and I was dating this other guy who I thought was really nice but turned out that he had a girl friend who I called and she told me that they both had genital warts.. Later on I had them appear on me so I went to the doc and they went away.. (Been almost 2 yrs and they so far have never returned and all my paps R good) Me and my boyfriend are back together and I explained all this to him.. He was upset but he said that he loved me and that he still wanted to be with me. No matter what!!! Now it's been almost 2 yrs and now he has a small bump on his penis that just appeared from no where.. Same color as his skin.. He says that it is a mole.. I am worried that it is not and he thinks I am being mean or he doesn't understand when I try to advise him to see a doc? What should I do?? Plz give me advice..

Answers:

Just say to him, "Look, you know that I've had genital warts before, and I'm telling you, these bumps on your penis look like genital warts. So you need to stop living in denial and get them checked out by a doctor." It should be simple.

genital warts are caused by HPV virus and HPV virus can cause cervical, anal, penile cancer!

anyways, i would be like i had an std before and i want you to get checked out because it kinda looks like what i had.

you should tell him if he really loves you the both of you should just go to the doc's and get checked out to make sure everything is alright and go from there.

go to the doctors office [gyno] and pick up some info with pictures. show him. and, then insist that you both go for an exam. it could be a mole, but unlikely. there is treatment but, not a cure. good luck.

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